Copyright 2005 Juanita Bellavance

Are you tired of struggling and trying to realize your
dreams, yet constantly missing the mark? You know your
potential but just keep on missing it.
 

How do you know when you have actualized your potential?
When you are in your full potential, there is an experience
of joy. Serendipity occurs where opportunities and
solutions appear seemingly without effort. You move
naturally into the next phase of your effort.

If this is not occurring for you, you may have missed a few
steps between your idea and the actualizing of it. The
steps you have missed are often internal thoughts you may
be having as you go along the way.

Let’s take a look at some internal obstacles within your
spirit. As a child you enjoyed the delight of discovery.
You gave no thought to success or failure. You simply
enjoyed the process of being alive and experimenting.

Gradually your ego developed, you became self-aware or
self-conscious. As a result you began to compete with your
fellow man and judge opportunities based on personal gain.
You became separate and began to experience superiority.

Because of the impact of your ego on your choices and the
results in the world around you, you must begin exploring
your ego or self-consciousness to discover your higher
plane that you had as a child and left behind. It is an
exciting journey that takes you to unity, learning the art
of co-operation and sharing with others.

At this point you will see that we are all connected and
the culmination of this journey of discovery is the
ultimate discovery of yourself as creator, an evolved,
wise, compassionate, and fully “aware” soul.

This discovery is the actualization of your potential.

I was on a tele-seminar with April Dunson of
http://www.dessence.com the other day and became so aware
of the impact of self consciousness on my choices at times.
April asked a question about whether we believe we could
acquire money with no effort. At that very moment, my
thoughts were about how that could be done! A child would
never have thought such thoughts. They would have simply
said “sure!” Children acquire money constantly with no
effort.

Even as I write this in the hopes it will make a difference
for you, I am becoming conscious of my constant blocking of
my potential with such questions of “how” rather than just
saying yes to whatever comes to me.

I invite you to explore your self-conscious and let go of
thoughts that entangle your process and experience the
actualization of your full potential. As you probably
know, it is a faster process to reveal your thoughts
through conversation with others who can help you check
your thoughts, than when you try to do it alone. Explore
and bring back your “child” so you can move through the
steps to actualizing your potential.

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Juanita Bellavance is an entrepreneur coaching
entrepreneurs. Find out about her latest teleseminar on
risk-free arbitrage trading at
http://www.surefireonlinetradingsuccess.com